Am I overanalyzing?
Am I seeing signs that I was blind to in the past in other relationships?
Am I trying to see signs that aren’t there?
I had made a decision regarding women, and chose C.  My only hesitation with doing so initially was that I was afraid of being in a relationship. Of course, now that I’ve started seeing her, all of those things that I feared (before I even knew the person) have come up.  Communication, boundaries, all the basics in getting to know someone and figuring out whether they’re a fit.  In the past, I’d blinded myself during this stage of the relationship by my infatuations with them.  This time around I’m doing my best to tell my infatuation to STFU and listen to reason.  I’m really afraid that this means I’m overanalyzing the situation, and ruling out something that might be really great.  I’m also afraid that I will push through it and get burned.
I don’t know if I’m ready, and if I’m ready, I’m not sure what is going on here.
/me begs the universe for clarity.
Signs are always there, but no one is perfect and if you are not willing to compromise on some of those things that make a person imperfect you will never find someone. The problem is that one often realizes too late that he had covered up so many imperfections in the other person that it was actually becoming unhealthy towards the relationship and your happiness in day to day life. Maybe instead of ignoring the signs we have to tackle them? who know? But then again some of those things you only find out about a person with time and some only too late, what I should have known is that no matter what you have to offer the best way of knowing what a person will do is to ask them about their past, as they probably won’t change. I was dumb enough to ignore their past and give them a chance, not a good idea.